Sunday, October 5, 2014



Opinions

As a kid you never think whether your opinion’s matter. As one gets older life goes on decisions are made by doing so things change. As an adult you start to realized what you once thought as kid wasn't always going to stay the same. Your opinions change gradually over time as you get older you start to accumulate your own indications to assist your own opinion’s. As for me my opinion began to change the moment I discovered how having a baby is not all about the cuteness of the baby. But about having to take care of an actual human being with so much needs, attention and so on. When I saw my own sister having to take care of her baby when she was nineteen years old was a life change for me. She had just graduated high school with a baby in her hands her whole senior year she was caring a baby in her womb. But with that being said the pain she went through the moment the baby was born, I was their and I saw everything with my own eyes. When I saw how painful it must of been I thought to myself hell to the no that is not going to be me. As a kid I loved taking care of my little brother, I remember when he was born I was just four years old and I loved to help my mom out with him I would feed him and try to change his dippers. Back then it looked easy and I was wrong it is not easy. With that being said I give props to the women that had any baby’s of their own especially the single mother’s out their. Then my sister started revealing the reason’s she loved being a mother and I thought to myself well I do want to be a mother one day but not anytime soon.

3 comments:

  1. Yeah it is unfortunate to have an unplanned baby. I had so many friends in high school who had to go through hardships due to their pregnancy.

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  2. You're right, having a child is not all cute fun and games it is hard work and life changing. It's definitely a crazy thing

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  3. After seeing my friend have a baby and struggle being a single mom, I vowed to myself I'd never have a baby, unless I have the financial responsibilities to raise one. Honestly, babies are too much to handle.

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